by Diane Petryk-Bloom
Winter comes early to
It was only early November, but we had our first serious snow storm already.
They say it’s a sign of good insulation if snow doesn’t quickly melt off your roof, but I had no cause to be pleased with my new 2-bedroom A-Frame on that account .
I was about to have a hole cut in the roof and for some reason the man set to come up from Cheboygan to do the job on my St. Ignace dwelling was on the phone asking me if there was ice up there.
On examination, one side of the steeply pitched roof was fairly dry. The other side looked like a giant splattered snow cone.
“Not much,” I said. The sun will probably burn it all off by the time you get here. Was there ever sunshine in northern
In a word: Imprinting
We are all indelibly imprinted with certain image and experiences from our childhood -- those that stick and dictate our lifelong preferences.
Back in 1950-something, I’m in second grade at
On a morning that didn’t even hint at a need for leggings, I set off for school. But by
Two things about this era: Many moms didn’t drive, mine among them, and girls weren’t allowed to wear slacks or jeans to school—even little ones. That wouldn’t change in my district until 1968.
So on that afternoon – no bus, no car, no long pants, I turned my newly 7-year-old self into the wind and pushed for home. The sharp, icy gusts bit into my bare legs. I was only halfway home when they started to numb.
My mom had no means to rescue me. She did the next best thing. She started a fire in the fireplace.
When she saw me tumble in red-cheeked and red-kneed, she looked relieved and said, “Hurry, come by the fire.”
I still see her kneeling there before the fireplace rolling newspapers into paper logs to put under the grate to help ignite the wood above.
In choosing a floor plan in this post World War II suburb, I knew my parents had sacrificed the third bedroom for the larger living room with fireplace. Considering they had a boy and a girl who would soon outgrow sharing the same bedroom, you can see the importance they placed on that.
It might have been the wisest choice. Through the fifties and sixties and into the seventies that fireplace warmed us while we read or watched TV, its amber aliveness welcomed relatives and guests and it pitched in for the furnace in a crunch.
I learned the importance of opening the flue before building a fire by smoking up the entire house a few times.
Every Christmas my mom would tuck the red ribbon bow of her pine cone cluster in the same gap in the fireplace fieldstone. I knew the fold-out Hallmark Christmas card train would be on the long mantle to display the greetings that would come in the mail. And the little candle carolers and a gum-drop tree from the dime store would be up there as well.
At college in
When I got my first job, I rented for awhile and always missed the hearth part of making a home. So when I was offered a deal on my first house my first question was “Does it have a fireplace?”
Nevermind that it was
My memories of that fireplace include two glasses of wine and conversation that lasted well into the morning.
Apartment hunting in
Does it work?” I asked.
“Sure,” she said. “But you have to sweep the ashes out – there’s no chute.”
In
A baby son and a new life took me to
When we decided to return to our home state of
There was a cute 2-bedroom that had everything but.
Then someone leaned into my ear, and, in the manner of the man who whispered “plastic” to Dustin Hoffman in The Graduate, said "Vermont Castings."
I bought the fireplaceless house with the pitched roof. From the loft bedroom you could see
After the closing, I headed south across the
Which brings us back to the man on the icy roof. He survived. We had a fireplace in time for Santa.
The night my 7 year-old and I strung some holiday lights around the porch railing we made a snowman, frolicked in the snow, and studied the brilliant constellations visible on a northern
Then, after
Night after night that winter we read in front of that glowing, glossy robot with the very tall, crimped stove pipe hat.
Will my son remember me chopping the icy logs free on the porch or lighting the kindling as I remember my mother rolling newspaper logs and wielding the poker under the grate? And know that “come by the fire” means “I love you.”